I am giving up! I have checked all the fuses in the box under the steering wheel, at least I think I have. I have also put fuses in empty spots. I have decided the better course of action is to re-do that circuit. It is critical enough for me to what to know where the fuse is and make sure it is done right. Thor took one circuit and split it to both power points. I am wiring my own and using a separate fuse for each. Almost ALL of the spots on this fuse box are not used. So, I am buying these:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08G1KPX7W
And will run new wires. It is a short, easy run. I am also going to hardwire in my add on camera screen so it does not need to take up a power point. I decided I wanted 2 rear facing cameras on the bumper to look back at my tow vehicle while driving. I'll post back when done, probably on Monday.