Carl, I had problems finding mine as it was taped to the steering column and the tape covered the gray plug. Mine was on the right side of the column. I have heard of people finding them pushed up in the radio wiring behind the radio. Good luck.
I finally found it after starting to remove the shroud for the steering column, it popped out into view. Other than finding it the job was simple, I already had the necessary adapter I removed from my wife's Ford Explorer. Thanks for the advice, it is much appreciated.