Update: They called this morning "The bumper is fixed but we have a few ideas we'd like to show you on different painting options" (since I happened to be home) "great I'll be right over"
So new plan: They are only going to paint the little inset where the fog lights are, here is another crappy illustration:
Presumably they will have a steadier hand than I did with the paint program LOL.
The shape of the inset pretty much matches the teardrop shape of the headlights (and the paint will still match the dark brown color on the side).